miércoles, 11 de septiembre de 2013

Give me another chance

It may have been a long or short time since our breakup, and now you ask yourself whether you should go back to him.
He tells you he wants to try again, you need to give him another chance ...
But how can you tell if it is a good idea? What if you're wrong? What if I fail again?
It is a difficult decision.
Points you should consider to help you make the best decision:

1. There must be forgiveness.
If you've reached the point where forgiveness is sincere and feelings of pain, anger and bitterness have been healed, then it may be a good time to try again. If you still struggle with these bad feelings, you will enter dangerous territory, because those emotions are popping in when least expected.

2. What separated WHAT WAS?
If those problems that caused LA break already been arranged, you will be entering a whole new relationship. Conversely, if these problems are still there, you risk
fail again repeated.

3. Is he a good man?
If it is an honest, responsible and has a good heart, if you can say, "yes, it is a good man!" Will be a good idea to fight for it.

4. Reliability and commitment.
Before restarting the relationship, both must be fully committed to making it work. There is no point going into the relationship half, with one foot inside and one outside.

5. Your life with him.
Think of what your life was when you were with him. Was it better or worse? He drew? Best of you? Have you supported? Did inspire you to achieve your goals? Have you made ​​shine?

6. Your children.
Your children (those who already have or who will in the future). Is the father you want for your children? Is it a good model for them? Is it the kind of person you want your children to have by your side?
Besides all this, follow your intuition ... what your heart tell you?


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