Overcoming a breakup
If for any reason you just finished your relationship, the first thing to consider is that when a cycle closes, another opens. When something is over, another thing is reborn and although sometimes difficult to see it, over time you will notice that when one door closes, another opens and that power out of the sadness and depression that this might generate only depends on you. You can take a little time if you start to see the benefits of having that relationship ended.
Write 50 things you did not like the relationship or the person, things for which you consider that it was not healthy to follow and 50 things you consider as benefits accruing to have dissolved that relationship to land this reality why it was wise break.
It's important to do that at the moment you may feel that you are back in your process remember all the reasons that led to the termination of that relationship.
Another important tip is to get rid of all the things that make you reconnect, such as photographs, gifts, clothes, rooms, e-mails and anything that might be an encouragement to remember and return to the story, try to delete it, save it or give it away to close the cycle. It is very important to understand that if it does not work, you must accept and begin to revive, open a new cycle, know that what has been is over and he had to be, because that is what evolution.
For different things happen you must evolve, grow, love you more, know more. Looking in you what I do there and stop looking for what is gone. Make a list for 28 days of 30 things for which you can and want to thank. Take time to be with you, surely find many things that allow you to have a much better next chance you get to do it, if you made mistakes and recognize them, working and not do with your next partner and have a healthier relationship and quiet, you'll see that you have learned many things about yourself that will allow you to be happier.
Here are nine keys to overcome an indifference:
1. Take it out, shout!
Two. Let it go.
Three. Do not look back.
April. Take some time, heal your wounds.
May. Think: the storm of your emotions will, reflect on the whys and why.
June. Accept and forgive, only then you will be free, grow and be reborn.
July. Reconstrúyete.
August. Break.
9. Mistress. Your partner is gone and is part of your past, but continues to love others, if you love, to be loved again.
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